Why I hate onlyfans and p*rn
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Why I hate onlyfans and p*rn
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Greetings. Now, this is a video I have
wanted to make for a long, long time,
but the reason I haven't is because I
think this is one of the most important
videos on this channel, and I want it to
be perfect. And I think that's why I've
been procrastinating in it so much. So,
the topic of today's video, why I hate
Only Fans. Now, I'm not only going to
talk about Only Fans in this video. I'm
going to talk about adult content in
general. And I think one of the most
terrifying things about this is how
normalized adult content is. There's a
lot of terrible things happening in the
planet, but most of those things are not
normalized or encouraged or even
glorified. So I did a quick Google
search here and according to this study
I'm reading right now, 61% of the
general population reports viewing
pornography.
Reports. Imagine how many people do not
even admit to it. Teenagers, 73% of
teens have consumed pornography.
And then there's also statistics on
different religions and such things.
Now, I'm going to link this down below.
I am not sure exactly what the
statistics are. I should probably look
more into it. But as someone that
well live in the world, I can definitely
tell that this is a big problem. I would
actually say one of the worst things
that has happened to humanity is adult
content.
So I have taken some I guess I don't
know what to call this some notes for
this video because there's a lot of
things I want to go through. So let's
start with how I was raised. Now the way
I was raised, I was raised by an
incredible mother that raised me with
strong morals and values. I used to
watch movies and read books where you
know there is a princess getting saved
by a prince and and then they fall in
love and live happily ever after. And my
view of love and having children was a
man and a woman in a loving, caring
relationship that are willing to
sacrifice and live for one another. So,
I grew up hoping to one day meet a
handsome prince. That's kind of how I I
grew up. But then I started a school and
I have to say that the way boys were
treating girls, including me, wasn't
so charming. I had even been grabbed by
some of the boys without
my permission, of course. And this is
when I got into the reality of things.
There is no such things as princesses
and princesses. Princess and princesses
and dragons that a man are willing to
fight for me. So this is when your
dreams get shattered and you come to the
reality of the world where people are
not so nice. I was pretty blue-eyed and
naive and it was hard for me to realize
the cruelty of the world.
So this is onto the next chapter, the
death of love and beauty. This is what I
realized about the planet that things
are not so
beautiful and love is very complicated,
especially when it comes to adult
content.
So how did we get here? I have a
this is supposed to rep represent one of
the first humans to to exist. And this
human thinks about survival. So food, we
need food to survive and water. And then
there's also a baby. This is supposed to
represent reproduction. For some reason,
humans [snorts] have been
born with an instinct to um reproduce.
But of course this is very simplified.
That's why I put a question mark here of
things human thinks about. We think
about well of course friendship and
love. I think having people in your life
has also been a survival mechanism to uh
to survive. We need people to do well.
And then of course having a safe place
to stay. Then we have entertainment. We
have beauty. We care about things
looking beautiful. So there's many
things you could put into this but in
general there's two humans instincts
surviving and reproducing right [snorts]
so that is why some of the most
beneficial
industries are the food industry the
medication industry and adult content. I
think this links back to our instinct to
reproduce.
So
some people are going to argue it has
always existed. I remember in history
class in school one of the the things
that we were taught is that one of the
first ever jobs was prostitution. That
was one of the first jobs to exist on
the planet. And that goes back to of
course our instinct that we want to um
reproduce I guess from an instinct
perspective right like if we have an
instinct to eat food. So if we see a
chocolate cake where our instinct is
going to say we should eat it because we
have an instinct to survive and get
calories doesn't mean it's a good thing
necessarily. So yeah it has always exist
that is something people are always
going to argue. It started with
prostitution then maybe some text
written erotica then of course magazines
porn magazines. It went to it went from
photos, text, and now it's videos. And
videos is, of course, well, they're on
the internet. You can see them for free,
and even children can access them. I'm
not going to go into the this topic in
the video because it's it's such a dark
topic, but
it is it is concerning. It is concerning
that teenagers and children
watch this this type of content and we
are not restricting it in any way. But
this is a whole different topic of
course of restriction and such things.
Now I'm going to say that even though
something has always existed, it doesn't
make it right. Humans are pretty messed
up and there are some things we do that
maybe is not the best for us like
cheating or abusing one another or
killing one another. Just because
something has always existed, it does
not make it right.
So, what has adult content turned into?
Now, one of the things I think about in
2026 is female empowerment.
So, this is actually something I I wrote
here on the back. So, one argument I
have heard from women that do this type
of content is that we have been
sexualized all of our lives. So, why not
make a profit of it?
In my opinion, this is like your house
being on a fire and instead of stopping
the fire, you end up just burning down
the entire house. This is the mindset
and I understand where this is coming
from. you know, as a as a woman that
well, I'm in a loving relationship right
now. I have been involuntarily
sexualized throughout my life. That
doesn't mean I'm going to start making
adult content. That doesn't mean I'm
going to give away my body for 5 a
month. It's a terrible argument in my
opinion. But this is one of the most
concerning things I think right now. One
reason I'm afraid for my daughter's or
son's future that it has turned some way
into female empowerment. It [snorts] is
not empowering to sell your body or give
your body away. Prostitution in the past
used to be something women did out of
desperation. It was not a nice job to
have. Um, so for example during war in
Finland, some women lost their husbands
and they had to sell themselves to be
able to take care of the children. It
was a terrible thing and that's why you
try try to help these women and we
should try to help these women out of
prostitution.
So why do I care? [snorts] I don't have
to make adult content. I don't have to
consume it. So why do I care? Now, one
of the reasons is that this is not only
about me, for our future daughters and
sons, for our brothers and sisters and
parents that we love. Everything we do
is a part of normalizing it. If a lot of
people smoke cigarettes, you're more
likely to smoke cigarettes.
So, for every single woman that makes
this type of content, it's a part of
normalizing it. For every single man and
woman that watch this type of content
and is open about it, it is a part of
glorifying it and normalizing it. People
are talking about adult content openly.
They're talking about watching it like
it's not a big deal. This is why so
terrifying to me. This is why I truly
hate these things because it comes from
a place of love towards people. [snorts]
If I have a son and a daughter, I want
my daughter to grow up and hopefully
fall in love with an incredible man that
loves her, takes care of her. And if I
have a son, I want him to grow up and
find a woman that loves and cares for
him. I don't want my son to give women
money on Only Fans. These women that
don't care about him. These women don't
love him. These women don't care about
him. And same with with a woman.
If I have a daughter, I want her to be
loved, cherished, respected, not
millions of men getting off to her on
only Only Fans. Of course, you cannot
control your children, but we want the
best for them because we love them. So
if you
if you think adult content is okay, then
think about the people you love in your
life, would you want them to be a part
of the industry? Would [snorts] you want
them to spend their money on this, their
time? It's not only about money. Even if
you watch it for free, you're giving
your life to it. And this goes to back
back to the point of of debt and of
love.
It's the debt of love. We used to be in
relationships and love one another. And
of course, it's complicated. It's not
that simple. But like now people are
seeing relationships as transactional.
You women want money from men and men
are objectifying women and it's it has
turned into transaction. We are
objectifying each other. This is one of
the points. We're object objectifying
people.
Men are object objectifying women for
their bodies and women are objectifying
men for their money. Yes, it is a type
of objectification to look at a man only
for his money. Now, of course, having a
good-looking woman or a a man with money
is helpful, but this is it's
transactional. It's objectification.
I am very privileged to be able to be
with a man out of love and not out of
money or something like that. I'm super
grateful for that to have that
opportunity.
And also the evil industry. I think
everyone already knows the industry, the
adult industry is terrible for both men
and women. This is something everyone
knows. But this is not the big problem.
It's a very small percent of people that
make adult content, but it's a very big
part of people that consume it. It is
ruining men and women, the average
people, not just these small percentage
of people that make this content. It's a
very small percentage. Not many people
do it luckily, but a lot of people
consume it. So, I'm not going to go too
much into how evil the industry is. Most
of us already know. So also I want to go
into the addiction terrible addiction.
This mostly applies to men. So in the
past before adult content then beautiful
women were an inspiration for men to be
good men. So they maybe they could have
a chance on a on a beautiful woman. But
now men can just sit at home and get off
to a thousand women. And this is an
addiction because you will start
watching something and then you will
start you need more. You need more. You
need more. Same with alcohol. And I know
some people that they don't even want to
make love with their girlfriend because
they're so addicted to adult content. I
have heard of this. I don't think I know
anyone like this, but I've heard of
these scenarios when men are so addicted
to adult content that they don't they
can't even make love to their women
anymore. This is terrifying. It's it's
an addiction. You're not you cannot make
love anymore to people because you have
been watching something so extreme.
Maybe even from a very young age, maybe
even as a boy. And this this addiction
thing is it's the extreme, but this is
very common. People get addicted to this
and they stay at home and they don't no
longer want to be a good man or a woman
because they can see dozens of naked
people at home. It's there. It's the
lack of motivation. We don't have a
motivation anymore to go out and meet a
partner that loves us. Why should we try
to be a good and a good man or a woman
when we can just stay at home and watch
content? And staying at home and
watching content is so truly living.
We're not going through heartbreak and
love and we're not going through
experiences or seeing the world.
Let's see what's next here. The question
is why are we paying for it? It's a part
of fear, lust, and need. So the need
goes back to our human instinct of how
we we kind of have this human instinct
to reproduce, but I would 100% argue
that sex is not a need. You can live
your entire life without it and still be
happy. So people that say it's a need,
they're just coping. They're trying to
justify it, but it's not a need. Food is
a need. love, friendship, all of these
things. I would say these are a need.
Having a purpose in life is a need. But
I wouldn't I wouldn't say it's a need. I
would say it goes back more to our
instinct. And when it comes to fear and
lust, let's start with fear.
So when we meet someone and fall in love
with them, we might get our heart
broken. And this can cause a lot of
fear, can cause a lot of issues. We are
afraid we're going to lose something we
love. So a lot of people, they're simply
afraid. They're afraid to love. They
don't even want to give it a chance
because you can get your heart broken.
And that's why people are now sitting at
home and
getting off to naked women because
then there's nothing to lose. There's
nothing to lose. So that's one reason
people pay for it because of fear. And
then of course lust. Don't think I have
to explain lust to you. Yeah, that's
goes back to the I would say human
instinct as well.
I think I missed a note here. I want to
end the video by saying
you're worthy of love. Whoever is
watching this video right now, maybe
you're not in a good place right now.
Maybe you don't feel like the best man
or woman you can be. Now, of course,
that's only you that can fix it. But you
are worthy of love. Whether I'm not
talking about just relationships as a
loving like a man or a woman loving one
another, but like just in friendship in
general, maybe you haven't had loving
parents, you're still deserving of love.
And at least for me, according to my
morals and values, I'm not settling for
less. I'm not going to settle for
reading [sighs and gasps]
some fictional books about love. I want
to actually go out in the real world and
experiencing these things, experiencing
lust and love and seeing the world. So,
everyone that is watching this video
right now, I want to say that you're
worthy of love, even if you don't feel
like it. And I'm not going to go into
this video, of course, and how to
attract a partner. That's for a separate
video. But it starts with ourselves.
We need to be we can't control others.
We can only control ourselves. So, we
need to focus on ourselves being a good
man, being a good woman.
I think that's it for the video. Now,
let me know what you think in the
comments. I I'm actually really curious
what people think about this. I have
made some pretty big statements in this
video. So, yeah. I hope you have a
wonderful day wherever you are in the
planet and I hope to see you in another
video.
